Parents in The Development of Children

Rearing of children is not easy. Many factors influenced, especially the role and how parents educate their children at home.

Being a parent, according to Tan Vina in a talk show held Sion Hill School, should know the advantages of the child if you want to increase its potency.

Parents first, and now different. If the first, the parents still have a lot of time for their children, technology is also still not as fast now, and the minimal influence of the mass media. Unlike the now, parents have time for their children because of limited work demands, technology has also been high, and the influence of the media so big.

Vina recommend the parents to put more attention to the mass media. He cite comics, reading this image that contains a lot of pornography and not suitable as a reading of children.

"So also with the internet. Parents do not need experts, they should at least know the internet. So that later can supervise their children in using the internet, "he said.

Not different from the television, now that many television cinema can be adapted directly by children. "We have to notify the child, where the right and wrong," he said.

However, there is also a television that brings a positive influence. Just call the game football broadcast that uses a lot of tactics and strategy. There, children can learn and apply them in life.

As parents, still according to Vina, must also continue to foster curiosity. Try to read to wide knowledge. When curiosity parents high, then the child will not be any different. Child's curiosity will grow by itself.

Then, keep and develop communication between family members. By doing so, it's easier to raise children. If there is something wrong, husband and wife must communicate with each other. Don't be silenced each other when there is a problem. Better ask directly, what the problems and search for way out.

Couple must also declare each other. Avoid mutual conceal something. For example, a husband to buy something without his wife. Buy it because with children, the husband is the son-not to say the same for his mother. "Do not Threatens to keep the child, 'says Vina.

Vision Parents
Raising a child can not finish the course after the children growing up. Children should be given formal and informal education in order to grow into a mature and personal responsibility.

Most children grow because of the influence of their parents. Children will imitate what the parents and customs. Therefore, in order to have children responsibly, parents also need to have a vision of life in the household. "Plan's vision to the front of the family. How what and how? "Said Vina.

Be communicated with children and give children the trust. Speak with the words and give positive motivation. When children speak, listen his words with the heart. Similarly, when children have problems, check with the current problems haunt the child. "That way, children will be fostered for the independent and have responsibility," said Vina.

There are a few tips that emotional intelligence presented Vina. Of which is, of the blame, it is better to encourage the children to give. Then, from the overlook, it is better to explain to the child what has been done.

From birth, the child is like a sheet of white paper is clean. Parents and the environment outside the home is the colors that will decorate the white paper. As much as possible, parents should maintain and educate children so that the color values, positive and help her in this life.